15 th november 1986

after almost 4 months i sit down to write this . now why i chose to write
this is simply because i want to go back to the happy days of my life...not like i am not happy now but those are the days which are never gonna come back....remembering these days give me few moments of complete bliss that cant be got by doin anythin else !! so here i go

she came into our lives on this date.from then on till last year this date called for a celebration.well it was jus another reason to party and celebrate.
15 th november 1986 ( approximately 3 months after my birthdate) was when she was born.all i knew then was that she was also part of my family and almost the same age as mine...so being the kids at home ;we were pampered all the time annoying the little bigger ones at home..

wen we were young we celebrated this day by jus having a pre defined b day party like how kids generally have-the traditional b day cake,the b day hats,the eagerness to receive presents,games etc etc..

as we grew older our definitions of celebration got refined or rather re defined..wishing at 12 am sharp ,the surprise party,treating friends for either movies or food.. etc etc started becoming more of the in thing though the the traditional cake remained in tact.the concept of hosting a b day party elsewher creeped in...and the best part was the older generation ppl in the house were not invited although we needed them monetarily (hehe!!)...the invitees stuck to jus the friends and siblings if they were of the same age...

thus we celebrated each one s b day with the same enthusiasm year after year.i remember how we used to
pick up the places we always wanted to go but couldn due to various reasons for celebrating the day
as we wouldn be denied anythin that day...

i still remember her b day wen we were in the first yr of coll ...it was kinda customary i suppose(only she knows why) to treat ppl for ur b day ..the worst is wen u treat the wrong crowd..as in ppl whom u jus knew for like 2 months but weren friends...but today wen i think of that day it sounds so funny...
second yr and third yr we got more mature or i should say sensible and invited the right crowd ...
least did i know i was celebrating her last b day wen i was in the final yr....!!

this yr on 15 th i didnt have anyone to call and wish nor did i have ppl call me up and yell for not wishing on time,,.,nor did i sit and plan wher to go out for the treat..all i managed to do is stare at my mob for a while until the truth sank in......

well enough of the she's ...i am jus describing my sister ramya...she s not with us today but her memories remain forever,..this is like a tribute to her on her 22 nd birth anniversary...
..it reminds me of all the good times we ve had on this day keeping the b day as an excuse...thanks to
her for giving me memorable 15 th novembers ...15 th november will always remain in our hearts forever..
we missed you so much yesterday!!!(now at least will i get my treat??)