My unbonded relation!!

Hmmm…after a long time I sit down leisurely to write this post…finally with a lot of contemplation I decide to write on “my favourite person”… here it no way means any kind of a super hero or something like that …I am talking abt one of my best friends…today wen we r gonna part I feel like writing a gist of those special moments I ve shared with her so that wenever I miss her all I have to do is jus open up this page and immediately ;I ll have this glow comin into my face automatically which will make those moments come back to reality!!

So here I go beginning to write abt the first 20 yrs of my life…
Wher do I start…?? she came into my life wen I was 4…from then till this date its been a wonderful journey with her..we still remember those yrs as children…either of us being the class captain of our class and the other being the assistant captain , writing names of the other naughty ones on the black board ,marking social studies answers and dictating it to the whole class, organizing moral science plays, wearing those best behaviour and those rank holder badges with that innocent pride in our faces, laughing at each other s choir sessions, attending b day parties and getting two pencils and an eraser as return gifts and actually showin it off to others, opening up that big fat lunch box of ours and eating together,,(u can imagine the carrier type lunch cases used those days….god!! i still cant believe we actually used them once)!! we used to be our teachers pet students doin all their work and actually taking pride in it not realizing that they were actually dumping their work on ours!!pheww!!how dumb were we!!
whooooo…wat not….

Then slowly we grew older and our talks changed from those childlike ones to a bit of all those girly talks….she became more nicer, calm and composed and I was turning into a brat as I grew old…she never used to talk much but I seemed to be makin it up doubly for it…then we came to the higher secondary…and those two yrs jus flew leaving us barely any time to talk to each other…

Then the most important part of my life.. “college life”…this is the time wher our friendship bloomed and made us realize wat we meant to each other…every second of my college life I ve spent with her.. be it grumbling abt our never ending lab sessions and its record writing , or deciding on wen to bunk and stuff ..every small decision of mine revolved around her…we faced a lot of hardships during our college life…that s wen we realized and understood the importance of each other…today wen she s married and gone..i feel so happy that something nice is happening to her finally…but at the same time I feel sad and hard to accept the reality that she s no more gonna be the same friend I used to call up at any time of the day and actually talk for hours without any reason...i am no more gonna experience the pleasure of jus roaming around Chennai streets making fun and commenting on all the passers by as if we were perfect in everythin...god all those restaurant visits, walkin out ordering food and not being able to eat it, jus goin for a ride in the car ,and not to forget our daily course of temple visits…in fact ppl in places wher we hang out often today ask me how my friend is.. that s wen I realize that we both have done almost every small thing together…

Wat surprises me the most is the fact that we are kinda different in many things…right from the way of talking, to our ways of thinking …everything is quite different…but still I cant think of any other person in my life to whom I would actually dedicate a blog post!!
Now finally to her name…-“RANJINI”…god… the very name gives me a smile…
Here s a toast to my greatest friend !!if at all u find time to read this post sometime in ur life.. let me tell u that I ll truly miss all those times I ve spent with u…u ve been like a guardian angel to me…even now we both wil be makin new friends and enjoying life but hopefully the place we have for each other in our hearts never be replaced…hope distance doesn mater to us and we still keep in touch with each other if not like before atleast giving each the assurance that we r there for each other come wat may..and lastly to put all those myths to rest which says girls cant keep in touch with their friends after weddin…hell with those who say so... .by gods grace lets prove it wrong!!wat say??;-)

well Yet another testimony from me
u have laughed at me..laughed wid me..laughed for me..
u ve cried to me, cried wid me.. cried for me
u ve given me the solution wen i feel tat no one understands my problem
ur happy wen I am happy and sad wen i am down..
always cheering me
sharing my thoughts, dreams ,ur ups and downs
wonder wat i would hav been widout u!!

U undoubtedly MAKE me ME...
i kno this is a bit senti...
still I hav no words to express how i feel ..
these make us nostalgic wen we see them again..
hope this one makes u realise tat u ve completely influenced my life and moulded me in all the good ways…after all ur family to me in all means!!

So here s a toast to our friendship…cheers!!
Love you loads!!